Jianna is a 42-year-old who has recently come to understand herself as a trans woman. She is legally married and has two pre-teen children. She cares deeply about her family and values her role within it, but she is no longer romantically or sexually attracted to her spouse.
She has not yet socially or medically transitioned but strongly wants to.
In her context, a “stable time” refers to a point where she can maintain her role as a provider and reduce the risk of losing key relationships and support systems, though she is uncertain whether such a time will come.